What Is My Real Responsibility?

WHEN: October 29, 2012 Evening Meeting

Q: I see that I often take responsibility for things which are not my responsibility. Can you help me figure out what real responsibility is in daily life?

John: Having real responsibility in your life opens when all of your responsibility belongs to the expression of what you know the truth of in your heart, when all responsibility is given to the tiny little bit, within. And as that, you’ll be choosing differently. 

Q: There are different levels inside. What about the rules in daily life? Do they all depend on the same?

John: Yes

Q: So it’s okay to break some of the rules I’ve had. It’s really hard to go against my beliefs!

John: When you’re coming from openness and softness within and you don’t yet have the experience of the deeper levels, in openness and softness you’ll be following the rules. When you’re not sure of the rules, you’ll be following openness and softness, which will manifest within the rules.

As you awaken to the deeper levels within, you awaken to your capacity to discern the levels of knowing. That moves you with the rules, within the rules, and without the rules. 

If it is without the rules, you’ll be taking care of those rules that you’re no longer upholding. You’ll have a deeper heart understanding for what you are no longer walking in. The more that you are living without the rules, the more delicate your walk. 

From within the deeper levels, openness and softness walks without the rules, with that being in its care … and with that also being without apology. 

Q: Thank you.

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